Preface:
The following note explores the biblical narrative of Jacob’s wives, Leah and Rachel, and their sons, focusing on the themes of love, rejection, and the inheritance of the firstborn blessing as outlined in the Torah. It delves into the dynamics of Jacob’s preference for Rachel over Leah, the divine intervention in their lives, and the subsequent transfer of the birthright from Reuben to Joseph. The text further examines the prophetic significance of names, the fulfillment of Torah provisions, and the ultimate redemption of YasharEL through Yahusha , who is portrayed as both the sacrificial Lamb and the Husband of His people. This analysis weaves together scriptural references, Hebrew word meanings, and theological insights to present a deeper understanding of the “loved and unloved woman” in the context of Elohim’s covenantal plan.
Gen 29:31 And יהוה saw that Lě’ah was unloved, and He opened her womb, but Raḥěl was barren.
Gen 29:32 And Lě’ah conceived and bore a son, and she called his name Re’uḇěn, for she said, “For יהוה has looked on my affliction, because now my husband is going to love me.”
Yaaqob loved Rachel more than Leah and when Yahuah saw it, He opened Leah’s womb to give Yaaqob and her the firstborn son to whom was the birthright. Reuben was born and in Hebrew Reuben means ‘See a son’
Yahuah in written Torah made this provision for the first born inheritance
Deu 21:15 “When a man has two wives, one loved and the other unloved, and they have borne him children, both the loved and the unloved, and the first-born son is of her who is unloved,
Deu 21:16 then it shall be, on the day he makes his sons to inherit his possessions, he is not allowed to treat the son of the beloved wife as first-born in the face of the son of the unloved, who is truly the first-born.
Deu 21:17 “But he is to acknowledge the son of the unloved wife as the first-born by giving him a double portion of all that he has, for he is the beginning of his strength – the right of the first-born is his.
Since Yaaqob loved Rachel more than Leah, the firstborn son of Rachel was Yoseph and the lot of inheritance may have fallen to him as a loved wife from Yaaqob.
But it fell as a lot to Yoseph from Yahuah as Reuben lost his birthright as he went into Bilhah, Yaaqob’s concubine and laid down with her. Yaaqob was saved in a dilemma of a loved son (Yoseph) for whom he made robe of many colors and Reuben, his firstborn from Leah who was his unloved wife.
1Ch 5:1 As for the sons of Re’uḇěn the first-born of Yisra’ěl – he was the first-born, but because he profaned his father’s bed, his birthright was given to the sons of Yosěph, son of Yisra’ěl, so that the genealogy is not listed according to the birthright,
1Ch 5:2 for Yehuḏah prevailed over his brothers, and from him came a ruler, although the birthright was Yosěph’s.
Yoseph in Hebrew means ‘He will add’ and hence he received a double portion berekah (blessing)
Gen 48:21 And Yisra’ěl said to Yosěph, “See, I am dying, but Elohim shall be with you and bring you back to the land of your fathers.
Gen 48:22 “And I, I have given to you one portion above your brothers, which I took from the hand of the Amorite with my sword and with my bow.”
Deu 21:17 “But he is to acknowledge the son of the unloved wife as the first-born by giving him a double portion of all that he has, for he is the beginning of his strength – the right of the first-born is his.
Rachel רחל in Hebrew means ‘to journey’ as the root word ‘rach רח ׳ ‘ which means ‘travel or journey’
Chal חל in Hebrew means ‘to take effect’
In some contexts, “חל” is related to “חול” (chol), meaning something non-sacred or ordinary, as opposed to holy (קדוש).
Rachel רחל also means ‘Ewe’ which is a female sheep.
The name shows her death in not being able to journey and is prophetic in her name.
Rachel died while giving birth to her second son, Binyamin (Benjamin), as Yaaqob and his family were traveling from Bethel to Ephrath (which is later identified as Bethlehem).
Gen 35:16 Then they set out from Běyth Ěl. And it came to be, when there was but a little distance to go to Ephrath, that Raḥěl began to give birth, and had great difficulty giving birth.
Gen 35:17 And it came to be, as she was having great difficulty giving birth, that the midwife said to her, “Do not fear, for it is another son for you.”
Gen 35:18 And it came to be, as her life was going out – for she died – that she called his name Ben-Oni. But his father called him Binyamin.
Gen 35:19 So Raḥěl died and was buried on the way to Ephrath, that is Běyth Leḥem.
Gen 35:20 And Ya‛aqoḇ set a standing column on her burial-place, which is the monument of Raḥěl’s burial-place to this day.
Her name shows while her journey/ rach רח was to take effect/chal חל it turned out to be common/non sacred as opposed to qadosh which means set-apart or holy. חל is related to chol חול which means common/non sacred.
The one that was loved above Leah couldn’t make it to Bayt Lacham or Ephrath where Ephrath means ash heap or a place of fruitfulness and that’s why she may have named her son Ben Oni which means Son of my sorrow. Yaaqob renamed him as Binyamin which means son of the right hand.
Leah לאה H3812 means weary or be grieved or be offended (from H3811) and she was unloved by Yaaqob and was given to him in deceit by Laban her father instead of Rachel.
Leah, Yaaqob’s first wife, had six sons, who later became the ancestors of six of the Twelve Tribes of YasharEL . Their names and meanings are:
1. Reuben (רְאוּבֵן) – “See, a son!” (Genesis 29:32) – Leah named him this, saying, “Yahuah has seen my affliction; now my husband will love me.”
2. Simeon (שִׁמְעוֹן) – “He has heard” (Genesis 29:33) – Leah said, “Because Yahuah has heard that I am unloved, He has given me this son too.”
3. Levi (לֵוִי) – “Attached” (Genesis 29:34) – Leah hoped, “Now my husband will be attached to me, for I have borne him three sons.” The Levites later became the priestly tribe.
4. Yahudah (יְהוּדָה) – “Praise” (Genesis 29:35) – Leah declared, “This time I will praise Yahuah”
5. Yissachar (יִשָּׂשכָר) – “Reward” or “Wages” (Genesis 30:18) – Leah said, “Elohim has given me my wages because I gave my maid to my husband.”
6. Zebulun (זְבוּלֻן) – “Honor” or “Dwelling” (Genesis 30:20) – Leah hoped, “Now my husband will honor me, for I have borne him six sons.”
In each of her direct sons being born Leah gave an indication of her being unloved by Yaaqob.
The name Rachel רחל H7354 and means ewe (female sheep) comes from a similar root H7353 rachel רחל and its usage is unique in YashaYahu (Isaiah) 53:7 which says
Isa 53:7 He was oppressed and He was afflicted, but He did not open His mouth. He was led as a lamb to the slaughter, and as an EWE/ rachel רחל H7353 before its shearers is silent, but He did not open His mouth.
Yahusha is prophetically likened to a Lamb led to the slaughter (killing of the lamb) and as a ewe (female sheep) is silent before its shearers (ones who shave off the wool).
The EWE silenced before its shearers …He did not open His mouth
If we understand Torah, it’s so amazing
Num 30:6 “But if she at all belongs to a husband, while bound by her vows or by a rash utterance from her lips by which she bound herself,
Num 30:7 and her husband hears it, and he has kept silent towards her on the day that he hears, then her vows shall stand, and her agreements by which she bound herself do stand.
Num 30:8 “But if her husband forbids her on the day that he hears it, then he has nullified her vow which she vowed, and the rash utterance of her lips by which she bound herself, and יהוה pardons her.
Num 30:9 “But any vow of a widow or a divorced woman, by which she has bound herself, stands against her.
Num 30:10 “And if she vowed in her husband’s house, or bound herself by an agreement with an oath,
Num 30:11 and her husband heard it, and has kept silent towards her and did not forbid her, then all her vows shall stand, and every agreement by which she bound herself stands.
Num 30:12 “But if her husband clearly nullified them on the day he heard them, then whatever came from her lips concerning her vows or concerning the agreement binding her, it does not stand – her husband has nullified them, and יהוה pardons her.
A divorced woman’s vows made stand (remember Yahuah gave YasharEL a certificate of divorce YarmeYahu/Jeremiah 3:8) but it says if she made those vows in her husband’s house (Num 30:10-11) and her husband heard her and kept silent and did not forbid her then those vows stand but if he nullified those vows or the agreement that bound her (Num 30:12) when he heard them then it doesn’t stand as the husband nullified them and Yahuah forgives her.
The word translated as nullified is the repetitive word in the text parar פרר H6565
The verse should read as
Num 30:12 “But if her husband utterly ( parar פרר H6565) voided (parar פרר H6565) them on את H853 the day he heard them, then whatever came from her lips concerning her vows or concerning the agreement binding her, it does not stand – her husband has nullified them, and יהוה pardons her.
The word parar פרר had the root word par פר H6499 which means bull, calf, oxen
There is a marker alaph tau את H853 placed before ‘the day’ and is significant of the 2 bulls or calf’s offered one in the morning and one in between the evening daily which Yahusha fulfilled on the stake as there was darkness over the whole land from the sixth hour to the ninth hour (12pm to 3pm) and he was impaled at the 3rd hour (around 9am)
Mrk 15:25 And it was the third hour, and they impaled Him.
Mat 27:45 And from the sixth hour there was darkness over all the land, until the ninth hour.
Mat 27:46 And about the ninth hour יהושע cried out with a loud voice, saying, "Ěli, Ěli, lemah sheḇaqtani?” that is, “My Ěl, My Ěl, why have You forsaken Me?”
Parar means utterly break, the vows the divorced woman or the widow ie. YasharEL made was in her husband’s house as she entered into blessings and curses (Deut 28)
Deu 11:29 And it shall be, when יהוה your Elohim has brought you into the land which you go to possess, that you shall put the blessing on Mount Gerizim and the curse on Mount Ěyḇal.
Jos 8:33 And all Yisra’ěl – the sojourner as well as the native – with their elders and officers and judges, stood on either side of the ark before the priests, the Lěwites, who bore the ark of the covenant of יהוה. Half of them were in front of Mount Gerizim and half of them in front of Mount Ěyḇal, as Mosheh the servant of יהוה had commanded before, that they should bless the people of Yisra’ěl.
Jos 8:34 And afterward he read all the words of the Torah, the blessings and the cursings, according to all that is written in the Book of the Torah.
Jos 8:35 There was not a word of all that Mosheh had commanded which Yehoshua did not read before all the assembly of Yisra’ěl, with the women, and the little ones, and the sojourners who accompanied them.
YashaYahu 53:7 as an EWE before its shearers, He did not open His mouth which shows He silenced the mouth of oaths in Himself as He became a curse for us. He stood as the breastplate of judgement of YasharEL’s vows made while in the house of the husband Yahuah and utterly voided her vows.
Gal 3:13 Messiah redeemed us from the curse of the Torah, having become a curse for us – for it has been written, “Cursed is everyone who hangs upon a tree.” – Deu 21:23.
Col 2:14 having blotted out that which was written by hand against us – by the dogmas – which stood against us. And He has taken it out of the way, having nailed it to the stake.
By His death, for time being He made her a widow so that she could remarry the one who rose from the dead ie. Himself
Rom 7:3 So then, while her husband lives, she shall be called an adulteress if she becomes another man’s. But if her husband dies, she is free from that part of the Torah, so that she is not an adulteress, having become another man’s.
Rom 7:4 So my brothers, you also were put to death to the Torah through the body of Messiah, for you to become another’s, the One who was raised from the dead, that we should bear fruit to Elohim.
Remember, the marriage supper of the Lamb is when we actually are bethroed to Him as His bride though spiritually we are His bride on the basis of the surety of the renewed Covenant.
Rev 19:7 “Let us be glad and rejoice and give Him praise, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife prepared herself.”
Rev 19:8 And to her it was given to be dressed in fine linen, clean and bright, for the fine linen is the righteousnesses of the set-apart ones.
Rev 19:9 And he said to me, “Write, ‘Blessed are those who have been called to the marriage supper of the Lamb!’ ” And he said to me, “These are the true words of Elohim.
Mystery Babylon doesn’t acknowledge the transition from Torah of sin and death to Torah of life with an interim of widowhood as she says “I am no widow but sit as a queen”
Rev 18:7 “As much as she esteemed herself and lived riotously, so much torture and grief give to her, because in her heart she says, ‘I sit as sovereigness, and I am not a widow, and I do not see mourning at all.’
The true elect are in mourning as a widow waiting for her kinsman redeemer Yahusha who will be her husband forever.
In conclusion the unloved and loved are two facets of the woman’s identity in Torah where Torah makes provision for her and her seed’s redemption with a firstborn berekah and the woman becomes One in her true love Yahusha portrayed as her Husband as well as the Seed which sprang from her to give her remainder seed the firstborn berekah/blessing.
Yahudah was Leah’s son and He prevailed over his brothers but the birthright was Yospeh’s, Rachel’s son.
Yahuah brought Boaz (an Ephrathite as well as a Yahudite) to kinsman redeem Ruth (a former Reubenite who had lost his birthright), now an Ephrathite as she was a childless widow of Machlon the Ephrathite and their great grandson David of Yishai of Obed became a type of the Malchitsedek priest to whom the eternal rule was promised in Mashiyach Yahusha who would spring forth as the Promised Malchitsedek Priest, the tribe Moshe never spoke of the coming of this priesthood.
1Sa 17:12 Now Dawiḏ was the son of that Ephrathite of Běyth Leḥem in Yehuḏah, whose name was Yishai, and he had eight sons, and in the days of Sha’ul the man was old among men.
Rut 4:21 And Salmon brought forth Bo‛az, and Bo‛az brought forth Oḇěḏ.
Rut 4:22 And Oḇěḏ brought forth Yishai, and Yishai brought forth Dawiḏ.
Heb 7:14 For it is perfectly clear that our Master arose from Yehuḏah, a tribe about which Mosheh never spoke of concerning priesthood,
Heb 7:15 and this is clearer still, if another priest arises in the likeness of Malkitseḏeq,
Reuben ראובן - See a son:
Gen 35:22 And it came to be, when Yisra’ěl dwelt in that land, that Re’uḇěn went and lay with Bilhah his father’s concubine. And Yisra’ěl heard about it. Now the sons of Ya‛aqoḇ were twelve:
Bilhah בלהה H1090 means troubled and has root words bal בל and balah בלה H1086 which means ‘waste, wear out, wax old & balah בלה H1089 which means trouble.
Reuben ראובן ‘See a son’ went into waste or nothingness as bal בל also means nothingness.
Lev 18:8 The nakedness of thy father's wife shalt thou not uncover: it is thy father's nakedness.
The basarah is concealed in this.
Amo 2:7 …. And a man and his father go in to the same girl, to defile My set-apart Name.
Deu 22:30 “A man does not take his father’s wife, nor uncover his father’s robe.
Torah forbids for a father or son to marry the same girl. With Reuben ראובן going into Bilhah, a severe curse came upon him and his lineage and hence, this curse had to be broken by Mashiyach because the birthright was not listed through Reuben but Yoseph (יוסף) which means He will add. Reuben’s double portion went to Yoseph.
Deu 27:20 Cursed is he who lies with his father’s wife, because he has uncovered his father’s bed.’ And all the people shall say, ‘Aměn!’
How was this curse broken? This is a dark say and I pray reader understands this.
From a first blush sight we see Yahusha marry the same bride which was the Father’s bride as Yahuah said He is the husband and maker of YasharEL.
Isa 54:5 “For your Maker is your husband, יהוה of hosts is His Name, and the Set-apart One of Yisra’ěl is your Redeemer. He is called the Elohim of all the earth.
The word translated as husband here is the Hebrew word baal בעל H1166 which has the root words bal בל which means nothingness or waste and al על means ‘ascend’. The word also means ‘lord or ruler or master and also means ‘marry’
The verse makes more sense when written as
Isa 54:5 “For your Maker is your married one (baaliak, בעליך ) Yahuah of hosts is His Name, and the Set-apart One of Yisra’ěl is your Redeemer. He is called the Elohim of all the earth.
Hos 2:16 “And it shall be, in that day,” declares יהוה, “that you call Me ‘My Husband,( ishi אישי H376) ’ and no longer call Me ‘My Ba‛al (baali בעלי H1180)’ -my married one.
Hos 2:17 “And I shall remove the names of the Ba‛als from her mouth, and they shall no more be remembered by their name.
The word ishi אישי which is translated as ‘my husband’ is more appropriately translated as ‘my man’
The word Baali בעלי which is translated as ‘my husband’ and should be correctly translated as ‘my married one’ shows that YasharEL once divorced wouldn’t be able to reach Him as bal בל means ‘waste or nothingness’ and al על means ‘ascend’. This means their ascension to Him wouldn’t be possible. Hence, Yahuah renames His title as ishi אישי which means ‘my man’ ie. Referring Himself as her husband in a human form. Moreover, the word ishah אשה H802 is rooted in ishi אישי with an element of fire אש pointing to the burnt offering of Himself on the altar ie. The stake. While in YashaYahu 54:5 he says “For your Maker is your married one…” He says in Hoshea 2:16-17 that He will make YasharEL forget the name of Baal בעל and she would call Him “My man אישי “
Coz now she needn’t vainly try to reach Him, He would come in the human form as ‘her man’ and in Him she will ascend in the fire element אש of the slaughter place.
Now here is the dark say: The Son went up to the Father’s bed without breaking Torah as He is the Everlasting Father’ and unless one sees this truth his conscience will be defiled by seeing Reuben ראובן going into his fathers bed into nothingness or waste as he lost his birthright.
Yahusha is able to deliberately lose His birthright to YasharEL when He came as the Son to marry the divorced wife by His Fatherhood.
Eph 5:30 Because we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones.
Eph 5:31 “For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” Gen 2:24.
Eph 5:32 This secret is great, but I speak concerning Messiah and the assembly.
Rom 7:3 So then, while her husband lives, she shall be called an adulteress if she becomes another man’s. But if her husband dies, she is free from that part of the Torah, so that she is not an adulteress, having become another man’s.
Rom 7:4 So my brothers, you also were put to death to the Torah through the body of Messiah, for you to become another’s, the One who was raised from the dead, that we should bear fruit to Elohim.
Yoseph יוסף means ‘He will add’ and He added His portion to YasharEL making it a double portion and divorced YasharEL was unloved which He made her His Beloved and Only Bethroed Wife.
Summary:
The note begins with the story of Leah, the unloved wife of Jacob, whom Elohim blesses with fertility, granting her Reuben, the firstborn son, meaning “See, a son.” Despite Jacob’s greater love for Rachel, Torah law (Deuteronomy 21:15-17) ensures the firstborn’s rights belong to Reuben, not Joseph, Rachel’s son. However, Reuben forfeits his birthright by sleeping with Bilhah, Jacob’s concubine, leading to its transfer to Joseph, whose name (“He will add”) signifies his double portion inheritance. Rachel, meaning “ewe” and “journey,” dies giving birth to Benjamin, her journey ending in sorrow, while Leah, meaning “weary,” bears six sons who become tribal ancestors. The narrative extends to Yahusha, likened to the silent “ewe” of Isaiah 53:7, who redeems Israel by nullifying her curses under the Torah as her Husband, fulfilling the role of kinsman-redeemer. Through His death and resurrection, Yahusha transitions YasharEL from a state of widowhood to betrothal, uniting the “loved” and “unloved” facets of her identity in a renewed covenant, with the birthright ultimately pointing to His eternal priesthood and kingship through Judah and Joseph’s lines.